Prayers for My Future Husband

Prayers for My Future Husband

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2 Week Prayer Journey

Welcome to our 14 day journey in “Prayers for our Future Husbands”! We are so excited that you decided to join us for praying for your future husband. This is going to be awesome! And did you know that your future husband needs these prayers? He truly does.

So, of course you can just read these prayers but I would like to ask that you also write these prayers out in your own words in your journal, diary, notebook or whatever works for you. Then, after this 14 day journey, you can save those little prayers in a special box or chest. Then on your wedding day give them to your husband. He can read them whenever he’s having a bad day. He will really love this girls. You can hold onto these prayers forever! But we want them in your own words so that it’s really coming from you and the Lord.  Ok, ready to start?! Great!  Thank you again for joining! God bless.

Here are the steps simplified:

Step 1.There are 14 payers for you to pray for your future husband for 14 days.

Step 2.We want you as the reader, to read it,

Step 3.Pray it, and

Step 4. Write/or pray it in your own words.

Step 5. Save all your written prayers for your honeymoon! Give your husband one prayer a day on your special honeymoon, it will make it even more special. 😉

But after the 14th prayer it doesn’t have to end there. This 2 week journey is just a jump-start for you! After Prayers for our Future Husbands ends, you can continue to pray in your daily devotions, before you go to bed, when your sitting in the living room, when your doing dishes, ect. Whenever you remember to, just pray!
We hope you will join us in our 2 week prayer journey. Your future husbands need it ladies! 

P.S. We also made a 2 week prayer journey for future wives as well! It’s called Prayers for Becoming a Future Wife. Make sure to give that a try as well!

Big News! We now have a sequel to “Prayers for My Future Husband!” Check it out!

Prayers for My Future Husband
Part 2

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Prayers for Our Future Husbands

 

Prayers for Our Future Husband

Day 1

Lord, I don’t know who my future husband will be but you do. So I willingly trust you with my life and his. I want to lift my future husband up to you this weekend Lord. Please give him a great weekend! Help him to enjoy his friends and family. Give him peace and rest from the hard work week. Help him to keep his eyes on you and to encounter your presence in a whole new way! I pray that he would be able to make the right choices and decisions when it comes to his plans this weekend. Help him to be a light and shining example to his friends this weekend. Lord, whatever he does let it be a reflection of his love for you and may he bring you glory. Please help him know you love him and are looking out for him. Thank you Jesus. I love you and want to bring You and my future husband honor.
Amen.

Day 2

Lord, please bless my future husband today with the gift of friends. Please bring him godly mentors and companions that will spur him on in the pursuit of godliness. I pray especially that he would have examples of godly men to look up to. I ask that You would give him friends his own age who are seeking You with their lives. Please help him to be surrounded with the people that will draw him nearer to You and not farther away. And please give him friends that will bring laughter and joy into his life.
Amen.

Prayers for Our Future Husbands

Day 3

Dear God, please give my future husband vision and clarity today. Please inspire him with a strong vision for his life. Only you know exactly what his life will hold, and precisely what you want to do through him. Please remind him of that vision every day. Help him to rely solely on you for his strength, and to move forward with confidence. God, I ask you to help him love you more than anything else, running after you, unapologetically seeking you with all his heart. I ask you to give him passion and a selfless, unashamed boldness that can only come from you.
Amen.

Day 4

Dear God,
Please help my future husband to be a hard worker. May he work to bring glory to you. Help him to be honest in business and everyday life too. No matter how big or small a thing is. Each and every day even right now help him to make wise choices that bring honor to you. Help him to have integrity and to stand up for what is right.
Amen.

PRAYERS FOR MY FUTURE HUSBAND

Day 5

Lord I pray that my future husband would learn through day to day experiences and trials how to be a good leader. I pray that he would learn the qualities needed to make a great leader for his family and wife. May he learn integrity, strength of mind and above all, love. May he learn to be strong in his beliefs and not back down or give into the ways of the world. I know that being a leader requires boldness and humility, strength but lowliness of heart, wisdom beyond his years but also a meek spirit, I pray that he may learn this and more before he becomes the leader of our family. Bless his day and give him peace and joy. May he be filled with Your Holy Spirit and walk in truth and grace. Thank you for him Jesus! I don’t know who, or where he is or what he is doing right now but I pray for your everlasting joy to be with him. Let him laugh and be lighthearted today. Thank you, Jesus. Amen.

Day 6

Dear God, I pray that You would bless my future husband as he seeks out the answers to the questions that arise in life. Help him to know that as the Author of all things You have all the answers. And, Lord, help my husband to not be afraid of what the answers might be, but to know that all things have a place in Your plan. Teach him to pursue truth with zeal, but at the same time, Lord, let him accept that he can’t find the answers to some questions on this side of heaven. And, Lord, when the answer is not available this side of heaven, please show him how to hope in You.
Amen.

Prayers for Our Future Husband

Day 7

Dear God, please help my future husband to love your word, the Bible. Help him to study and learn from it every day. Guide him and give him wisdom when he reads so that he will be able to teach and guide our family someday. Help him to be meditating on it all the time and to not just hear it, but be doing what you tell him to be doing in it as well. Thank you Jesus. Amen.

Day 8

Dear God, please give my future husband strength and wisdom today. Please give him the strength to face the temptations the world lays constantly before him. Help him in his battles and struggles, and please let him know you’re beside him at all times. Help him grow stronger in you every day. Please grant him wisdom in his decisions in life right now. In everything, please let him pursue wisdom from you. Also, please let him have a wonderful day today.
Thank you so much for everything you’ve done, are doing, and will do in his life.
Amen.

Prayers for Our Future Husbands

Day 9

Lord, please bless my future husband’s Sunday. Let him find rest and peace when he hears your word today. Lord I pray that he would love his family and want to have his own family when he’s married. I pray that he would have a loving heart toward children and that he is soft, gentle and caring. Teach him the abilities that make a great father. Help him to learn now so that when he is a father he will be amazing. Give him amazing leadership skills and a heart to serve his family. Let him recognize the importance of this role and help him to embrace his calling as a future husband and father. Thank you, Lord. Amen.

Day 10

Dear Lord, I pray that You would give my future husband the humility to ask for help when he needs it. Teach him to turn for help when he needs it rather than trying to face his problems on his own. When he is fighting sins (as I know he will), please show him that in the end, asking for help is worth the momentary humiliation if it means overcoming his vices. Amen.

Prayers for Our Future Husbands

Day 11

Dear God, please help my future husband to be a good leader in whatever position you may have him to be in now and in the future. Our home, his work, church, etc may his life and the things that he does be about bringing glory and honor to you. May the other people around him see you through him and want to come to know you. Especially in our home help him to lead our family in a godly way. And give him wisdom and discernment and help in making any hard decisions that might come our way. Thank you Lord. Amen

Day 12

Lord, please bring my future husband the gift of joy and happiness today! Let his heart be light and care-free. Don’t let the troubles of life or this world bring him down. Let him enjoy life to its fullest today and everyday! Let his laugh be heard and his smiles be seen. Let him be a shining joy to all around him. I pray that his family would encourage him and build him up so that he may do the same for others. Let the clouds of depression and worry see his joy and pass over him. Bring him peace and comfort so that he can experience the fullness of Your goodness Jesus. Thank you Lord! Amen.

Prayers for Our Future Husbands

Day 13

Jesus, I pray that you would bless my future husband with the gift of a loving, sweet and tender heart. Let him learn now while he is single to be a loving husband. Help him want to bless others and have a caring attitude. Teach him how to help others while they are hurting. Give him compassion. Let him know how to complete me when I’m stressed or upset. Let him know the right words to say and how to comfort me. And Lord please give him loving friends and family to surround him with so that he never feels alone. Bless his day today and help him feel content and loved! Thank you Lord. Amen.

Day 14

Lord I pray for strength in my future husband. Help him be strong against the wiles and evils of this world in our day and age. Lord I pray that he would feel strong enough to take on anything this life has to offer him with You by his side. Give him a noble heart, a steadfast spirit and a passionate pursuit for holiness. Let him embrace his calling as a Christian leader in the 21st century and let him know the depth of influence that he has on others. Jesus, give him a fierce love for righteousness and a healthy fear of You, God. Thank you for him Jesus. Who ever he is, wherever he is, thank you for him. I surrender my thoughts and questions, doubts and fears in regards to my future husband. Lord, take control of my love life, I entrust it to You. Please be the King of my heart, be all my hope and dreams. I love you Jesus. Thank you for all that you are doing in my life and in that of my Future Beloved’s! Amen.

Ladies this was the last day in our journey of Prayers for Our Future Husbands. Thank you for joining us and following along! The Lord has truly blessed our time spent writing these prayers. I hope you enjoyed it as much as we did. Again, thank you for joining us. May God truly bless you and your future husband! We love you all so much. God bless!

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  • Orsi

    What a wonderful initiation! Thank you Girls! Orsi from Hungary

    • Egness Mandava

      I am so blessed with these prayers .God bless you my dear

  • Susanna

    I love the fact that you ladies encourage praying for your future husband. Even if you don’t know him! I am still young but my family and I continue to pray about my future husband. (If God blesses me with one!)
    God bless you all! Love from your sister in Christ.

  • Stacy

    This is wonderful. I am in a relationship with a wonderful Christian man who I hope will one day be my husband. God bless each of every one of us ladies.

  • What an awesome idea. Thank you!!!

  • Marlies

    In tears thank you don’t know what to say Thank you! You really have touched my heart and have learned a lot Thank you so much “crying”.

  • Karen St Croix

    Not only great for your future spouse but I also prayed the same for me as I wait to become a wife!

  • God bless you my sisters for this thought. The Lord is your strenght.

  • Getrude Dhlamini

    Thank u ladies 4 this account & l have started praying the prayers on behalf of my 2 daughters

  • This is something I have recently started doing as well. I believe building the foundation of a good marriage happens way before the wedding.

    More about this subject: http://beyefabulous.com/2014/07/29/praying-for-someday/

  • Loner

    Please pray with me, I’m asking God to provide me with loving and wonderful husband who loves and fears God. Amen!!!

  • Brenda

    This is awesome! Totally doing it with a couple of friends!! : )

  • Sindi

    Wow! This is great! I have been praying for my husband and will continue until I meet him. Also praying to be a wife that a christian should be.I am excited and blessed by this. Keep it u ladies.

  • Sindi

    Meant to say keep it up ladies

  • kayleigh

    I read this and it made me cry, I am going to start praying for my future husband, and I am going to try the 14 day prayers. thank you for sharing this with me, may God bless all of you!!

  • nosy

    Great sisters we really need to pray for such things is so important also we must pray for inlaws. Currently its been in my heart to pray for a husband this days bt didn’t know most areas to pray about this will help me a lot.Thank you sisters May the Lord grant you al ur heart desires as he promise to give us exactly what we ask of him.

    • thank you! this will really help, this neva cross my mind even once… thank you for letting us know that its important to pray for your future husband… that’s nice of you… # wit love mss splashy…

  • Mongie

    Thanks for the prayers,i wish God will provide me with my future husband,as soon as possible

  • chinny

    Honestly, the strenght of a godly home is in a prayerful woman. I believe God answers all our prayers n protect the future fathers of our future unborns!

  • Anitha

    Thank you for the Great prayer.God bless you A lot.I have started praying for my Future Husband in Jesus name Amen.Thanks for the prayers,i wish God will provide me with my future husband,as soon as possible……….Amen ……..Thank you….

  • Thank you so much for this guide. Have always had letters to my future husband since I was 18. As a 20 college student with many friends either getting married or sleeping around, this provides such guidance to place my hope in God, something real, rather than wasting it on being sad or planning my wedding on Pinterest. Thank you for your heart and transparency.

  • I am so excited to try this…:)

    • Let us pray together with this..

  • I love this! I have a notebook of prayers for and letters to my future husband that I’ve kept since January 10, 2008. (Which means I’ve been praying for 7 years now!) This year, I’ve decided to develop discipline and devotion within my character, to write a letter each day this year.

    It’s so exciting because I have actually met the man that prayerfully will be my husband one day when God deems it appropriate. God has us apart right now as we work through several areas within our life, and although there are no definite, visible reasons for me to be certain that God will restore our relationship, I have so much peace about it and would not be surprised. Also, I’ve gone through some of the prayers with him to realize that what I was praying for was occurring in and through his life at a similar time frame, and things I’d prayed for about the relationship we’d share were fulfilled in the time we were together.

    I must say, ending a breakup with prayer, lengthy hugs, and an “I love you,” when you’re both being obedient to the Spirit is the best breakup possible.

  • brenda ivonne

    I have never thought to.pray for.my.future someone i want to get closer to god for i have been through some devilish ways and took.me.lessons to learn this i clintched onto my true first love for he was my first in everything but he grew to be a man i didnt recognize much less thought my true love was going to be this person is it possible for him to change through prayer ?

  • anna

    I started praying for my boyfriend (of eight years been dating since we were 18) last year and I have seen the Lord moving in his life. We got engaged January 1 2015. These prayers have helped me to pray for specific aspects of his life. Thank you and God Bless.

  • Nolubabalo Tshabalala

    Thanks very much this is touching and really heart felt. I will start my prayer soon

  • Amber

    This has been so amazing! I expect great things to come! Thank You Lord for my future husband! May he be a great and mighty man of valor!

  • Louie-lyn

    Thank you so very much for sharing prayers ideas for each and everyone of us who truly believe that true love really exist.. I know God hear our prayers especially if we have strong faith in him..

  • Katie Trent

    This is so amazing. Thank you for sharing this. It’s really helped me out, you just don’t even know… THANK YOU!

    • Our pleasure, Katie! Thank you for reading through it, God bless!
      <3

  • Renetta

    Thanks so much for helping me to believe again!! This is by far the best prayer challenge ever!

  • Martha Mokgohloa

    Wow. Thank you so much for this. I actually wrote a letter to my future husband since 2013. I’m going to start with this 14 days prayers. God is great.
    Mahlako

  • Lydia Brown

    I am so very blessed that God has led me to this blog. As a 20year old life is hard and confusing trying to figure out the rest of my life! This specific post gives me a burst of excitement every night to pray for my future husband! Is there any consideration for a sequel to this? It helps guide me into specifics I can pray for my future husband and I want to keep going but get a little off the tracks when it comes to topics. Please do a sequel with more guidance in these prayers!

  • griselle

    Thank you for give me strength and hope I surrender my heart to you God and my future husband out there!

  • BLESSED Blesse37!!!

    Hi! Am I allowed to pray this even if I’m still 15 years old?

    • Lisa Hallahan

      Of course! the sooner you begin praying the better. God bless!

  • Taylor

    This post is so amazing! Ever since I started to pray for my Future Husband God has given me so much more peace about what my future holds in that area!

  • Ann Dee Pedroc

    I love this prayer! I know GOD is securing my future when I choose to trust him! I don’t have to sit desperate think what my future husband is like! Prayer move mountain! THANK YOU SO MUCH! BLESSINGS

  • Ladies: Wake up. Stop praying for an invisible ghost god to send you a knight on a white horse and go get him yourself!

    Prayer doesn’t work. That is why the overwhelming majority of Christians only ask Jesus for the things that are likely to happen anyway: Bless my food, bless my family, help me to not be nervous during my presentation, etc.

    Make life happen YOURSELF! Don’t ask a two-thousand-years-dead Jewish prophet for help. He ain’t a-listenin’, ladies! He’s dead.

    Stop the passivity and take life by the horns! You will be much happier.

    Peace.

    • Lisa Hallahan

      Ahem. I would much rather believe in a God who sent His only Son Jesus to die for my sins and love me unconditionally, who gives me faith to believe He’s real than to listen to a complete stranger who’s logic is so shallow it makes me laugh.

      Clearly you’ve never experienced answered prayer. I on the other hand have almost died but because of prayer I am here today. Maybe you should look around and come up with a logical debate before commenting on a Christian website where no one will listen.

      Peace.

    • Brandi in Colorado

      Praying for you!

    • Sadie Smith

      God is not dead. I’m sorry that you feel the need to squash those who do have faith and I pray that the Lord will open your eyes. For your sake I sincerely hope that you will start to seek the real truth and realize that we have a very real, living God in Heaven who dearly loves us. God listens and cares for us more than we could ever imagine, Gary. Mocking these young women of Faith for praying about their future husbands is uncalled for. If you understood what prayer truly is then you would know it’s not all about asking for things. We know God is not some magic genie who will just make things happen if we ask. If you are truly about Peace, Gary then you should start praying. Because peace is a benefit of prayer. As Christians we pray to spend time with the Lord and yes, sometimes prayer is about making our requests known to him, like this blog post about praying for our future husbands. But other times when praying it could just be to talk with the Lord or to thank Him. Try praying today, Gary. The Lord loves you and cares for you.

    • Saige Parsley

      Gary,
      I am so sorry that you feel this way. God loves you and He will always love you. Luke 1:37 says “For with God NOTHING shall be impossible. I am glad to say prayer does work and it has changed my life so many times and many prayers that were answered were prayers that I thought would be impossible to answer. Prayer is real and I will be prying for you that God will open your eyes and show you that you need to be saved by the BLOOD of JESUS CHRIST and that he will show you that prayer works and that you just need to trust in him. Here is another verse that I think God wants you to know “For God so loved the world that He gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth on Him should NOT parish but, have EVERLASTING LIFE”. -John 3:16

  • Marcelino Montas

    I hope that my being a male is no offense here, ladies, but I feel the need to comment on this particular one.
    I happened to hit this site out of curiosity (although my spiritual director says that there are no coincidences,
    as everything is foreseen by God), since I’m a loner for many years desperately looking for a wife! But there
    are many lonely people out there who for some reason find themselves quite rejected, ignored and overlooked
    by everybody for no seemingly reason. I feel the need to start praying more intensely for the particular needs
    of these loners, who feel life is going by and time is passing them by and no answer concerning a soulmate
    ever arrives as they get older, loved ones and old acquaintances die and they are left alone in a world where
    there’s nobody left to know them nor share old experiences of childhood and family and they are faced with a
    world in which they become increasingly unknown to everyone. These persons are experiencing particular
    problems, difficulties and temptations and often find themselves under great abuse, disrespect and lack of
    consideration from others. I pray and let us all pray that these loners of so many years may finally find love
    and can finally establish their so much longed for homes, marriages and families and that we all can finally
    have children and a special spouse to breath with us. That all the temptations we feel out of desperation
    we overcome and that our special dreams of a future spouse and children may become a reality in our lives
    soon. Let us pray that we’ll be inspired where to go, where to write, what to do and who to visit in order to

    finally meet the person destined to us from eternity and that no stranger or evildoer will ever get neat us
    to destroy our happy marriages, children and happy lives. In Jesus’ name. Amen

    • Edith Dash Navigator

      Dear Sir Marcelino Montas,

      Sometime our greatest pain becomes our ministry. And out of that deepest pain that seems put you in bars for many years will be used by God as a shining stars for His glory. I agree with your spiritual director that there are no coincidences in life. everything had been orchestrated by our father. Our desperation when we unload it at the foot of the cross will become Gods tool to reach the world. God asked Moses, what do you have in your hand? And he said a rod, and when he dropped it God used it that rod to open the red sea… So with whatever you have right now God can use it for his glory. I am sure that what you were feeling that deepest desperation now will become a huge tool for God. Why I said so, because I am one of that person you mentioned here. The unloved, rejected and the abused. I thought my life was over. For most of my live I was desperate till God fill me with his love and that love filled me so much that I am not seeking for human love but ready to give it away… be it a child or my family or relatives. My life since then never lonely. I am alone but not lonely. So I am praying you find your purpose by doing what you actually felt your needing.

      When I stop looking for love in human form God sent my man in a very miraculous way. I never think there is a man that exist like my man but Ephesians 3:20 is the only one I can describe it. I prayed for my man and he gave more than I prayed. We are l always looking for a substance in a man, and yes I never found him…. God brought him to me. Until this time I am still so amazed how God answered my prayers. He over answered my prayers…. And I know he is waiting for you to make him your all in all then he will hand you the only one that can satisfy your heart. God Bless.

  • Brandi in Colorado

    Thank you! I just came upon this and such perfect timing as I am currently getting a prayer notebook together to start on New Year’s Day. May God bless all of you!

  • Brandi in Colorado

    I just came upon this and such perfect timing as I’m getting a prayer notebook together to start on the first day of the new year! 🙂 God bless you!

  • 09girl

    These prayers are such à blessing to myself & my fiancé. The more i pray these things for him, the more God changes my heart towards him, gives me love & words of kindness & encouragement for him. Because i trust God is working these things in his life as He is working in mine, i dont have the inclination to criticise or try to change him.
    To you ladies, when God blesses your life with à Godly man, know that it is your job to love & respect him for who he is no matter what. It is never your job to change him. That is up to God.

  • Geriel

    Thank you for sharing. I really enjoyed reading and writing my own prayers for my future husband. I truly believe God has an amazing love story for all of us. I’m so much more prepared for what God has in store for my love life. God bless you all and thanks again for sharing these prayers!

  • Krista Queen

    This is wonderful, but you guys should mix up your pictures. It’s all white couples. Get some diversity!

  • Lindsey R

    So I’m curious, and I would wonder what your response would be, but I’m conflicted. Not every Christian woman is going to be married. I have doubts about marriage. I would really love to fall in love with a Godly man and marry him and grow in love for the Lord and for each other. However, I have a dilemma, I have a mild case of Asperger’s syndrome. I’m only 18 but I’ve never had a boyfriend and I don’t think any guy has had a crush on me. I’m not exactly the most pretty girl and I’ve had some self doubt issues.
    I’ve heard a lot of women say to me and other girls at my church to pray for our future husbands. I’m not sure God has someone for me yet if he does then certainly I should prepare for that life now by praying.
    What would you advise? If I don’t get married then I will feel embarrassed. Should I pray for a future Christian boyfriend or husband or nothing at all?
    Does anyone else feel this way?🙄

    • Corrine

      Lindsey I so,hear your heart. Trust that the Lord already has plans for your life. Perfect plans! Pray for your future husband and be content in knowing Him.

    • Melissa T

      Hi Lindsey!
      I think that the important thing is when you are doing this kind of prayer that you trust God with the answer. Ask God that His perfect will be done. I know that is such an typical Christian answer, but I have found that by trusting His plan in my life I have more peace than if I try to do things my way. Marriage has its blessings just like being single. Take advantage of this time in your life to fall more and more in love with God everyday. When I get lonely or wish to have that kind of affection you get in a relationship, I tell myself that Jesus is my boyfriend and that I am the luckiest girl in the world to have someone who loves me that much (I even have picture frames with pictures of Jesus.) When I pray I say “God if this is your will I get married than[fill in the blank] but if not grant me the peace of your unfailing love until the end. Never let me forget how precious I am in your eyes…” Hopefully this helped!

      • Lindsey R

        Thank you so much girls, I really appreciate your output! May you continue to grow closer to Christ and may He bless you💗😘

  • Esh

    Thank you for these prayers. I would like to say one thing. I do think because you don’t know the diversity of the readers you have, I wish there was a more diverse range of different couples pictures (not just Caucasian) attached to the prayers. I am a Black woman and would have enjoyed seeing more than just Caucasian couples pictures on this thread because they are not the only representation of marriage. Just something to think about. Beautiful prayers nonetheless.